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My child answers in one word: how to get them talking

"How was school?" "Good." Most parents know this conversation. One-word answers are usually not shyness or a language problem. Children are tired, the question is too big, or they don't know how to start a longer answer. These 12 ideas help.

By the Eloqova team · Updated 2 November 2026

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The quick fix: Ask about one small, specific thing ("Who did you sit with at lunch?") instead of a big question ("How was your day?").

12 ways to get longer answers

Ask specific questions: "What made you laugh today?" instead of "How was school?"
Wait 5 seconds after asking. Silence gives your child time to think.
Share first: tell one small thing about your own day, then ask.
Talk side by side, in the car or on a walk, not face to face.
Ask "Tell me more about..." after a short answer.
Avoid yes or no questions; start with what, who, how or why.
Repeat their answer back, a little longer: "Oh, you played football with Kabir at break?"
Give choices: "Was art fun or boring today?" Then ask why.
Use sentence starters: "The best part was..."
Make talking a game: two true things and one made-up thing about the day.
Don't correct grammar while they are talking. Fix it later, gently.
Pick a good time: after a snack, not the moment they walk in.

20 better questions to ask after school

What was the best part of your day?
Who did you sit with at lunch?
What made you laugh today?
What did your teacher read to you?
Which game did you play at break?
Was anyone kind to you today?
Did you help anyone today?
What was hard today?
What is one new word you learnt?
Which class was the most fun?
If you could change one thing about today, what would it be?
Who was the funniest in class today?
What did you do in sports?
What did you eat first from your tiffin?
Did anything surprise you today?
What are you looking forward to tomorrow?
Which friend did you miss today?
What did you draw or make?
What rule did someone break?
What would you teach me from today?

Sentence starters for longer answers

The best part was...
I felt happy when...
Today I learnt...
My friend and I...
It was funny because...
I didn't like it when...
Tomorrow I want to...
My teacher said...

How to practise at home

Choose two questions from the list each day and rotate them.
Put the sentence starters on the fridge and use one at dinner.
Model long answers yourself when your child asks about your day.
If one-word answers come with a child who seems withdrawn or upset for weeks, talk to the class teacher.

Questions parents ask

Why does my child only answer in one word?

Usually because the question is too big, they are tired after school, or they don't know how to begin a longer answer. Specific questions and sentence starters help.

What questions get children talking?

Specific, open questions: "Who did you sit with at lunch?", "What made you laugh today?" or "What was hard today?"

When should I worry?

If your child rarely speaks in full sentences for their age, or seems withdrawn at school too, speak to the class teacher and consider a speech assessment.

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