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My child interrupts when others speak

Young children interrupt because they are excited and worried they'll forget what they want to say. It isn't rudeness, but it can cause trouble in class and with friends. Turn-taking can be taught. Here are 8 ways to do it and 6 polite phrases.

By the Eloqova team · Updated 7 November 2026

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Good speakers are good listeners: Learning to wait for a turn also makes children better at answering questions and joining conversations.

8 ways to teach turn-taking

  1. Teach the hand signal: your child puts a hand on your arm, and you cover it to show you've noticed.
  2. Use a talking object at dinner: only the person holding it speaks.
  3. Play turn-taking games like board games and catch with questions.
  4. Praise waiting: "Thank you for waiting. Now tell me."
  5. Keep your promise to listen as soon as you can, so waiting feels worth it.
  6. Explain emergencies: it's always okay to interrupt if someone is hurt or in danger.
  7. Model it yourself: say "Excuse me" and wait when you need someone's attention.
  8. Talk about how it feels to be interrupted, using a story or role play.

6 polite phrases to use instead

  1. Excuse me, may I say something?
  2. Sorry to interrupt, but ...
  3. Can I tell you something when you're finished?
  4. I have an idea. Can I share it?
  5. Can I ask a question?
  6. Please let me finish, then it's your turn.

How to practise at home

  1. Use a talking object at dinner for one week.
  2. Practise the hand signal 3 times a day.
  3. Role play: one person talks while the other waits, then swap.
  4. Notice and praise every time your child waits for a turn.

Questions parents ask

Why does my child keep interrupting?

Young children are excited and afraid they'll forget their thought. They also haven't learned how to get attention politely yet.

How do I teach my child not to interrupt?

Teach a hand signal or "Excuse me", praise waiting, listen as soon as you can, and practise turn-taking games.

At what age do children stop interrupting?

Most children get better at waiting between 5 and 7 years old with practice, but it takes reminders for a long time.

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