For parents of young learners
How to improve your child's listening skills
Good listening is the other half of good speaking. Children who listen well follow instructions, answer questions better and get along with friends. Listening is a skill that can be practised. Here are 10 everyday ways and 6 fun listening games.
By the Eloqova team · Updated 9 November 2026
Free printable kit for your child's class: speaking worksheets and a speech planner.Get it freeGet attention first: Say your child's name, get eye contact and then speak. Many "not listening" moments are really "not paying attention yet".
10 ways to build listening skills
- Get eye contact before giving instructions.
- Give one or two instructions at a time, not five.
- Ask your child to repeat the instruction back.
- Read stories aloud and ask questions afterwards.
- Listen fully when your child talks, so they learn what listening looks like.
- Turn off the TV during conversations.
- Use audiobooks and podcasts for children in the car.
- Play music and talk about the instruments or the story in the song.
- Praise good listening: "You remembered all three things!"
- Make instructions fun with silly voices or rhymes.
6 fun listening games
- Simon says: follow only the instructions that start with "Simon says".
- Sound walk: walk quietly and list every sound you hear.
- Chinese whispers: pass a sentence around and see how it changes.
- Story stop: read a story and stop; your child says what happened last.
- Clap the word: clap every time you hear a chosen word in a story.
- Follow the map: give directions to find a hidden treat.
How to practise at home
- Play one listening game a day for a week.
- Ask your child to repeat instructions back for a week and notice the change.
- Listen to a 10-minute children's audiobook together and talk about it.
- Praise one example of good listening each day.
Questions parents ask
How can I improve my child's listening skills?
Get eye contact first, give short instructions, ask your child to repeat them, read aloud together and play listening games.
Why doesn't my child listen to me?
Often they're absorbed in something else, instructions are too long, or the TV is on. Getting attention first makes a big difference.
What are good listening games for kids?
Simon says, sound walks, Chinese whispers, story stop, clap the word and follow the map are fun and easy.
More free guides
- My child interrupts when others speak
- Improve your child's communication skills
- English speaking games for kids
- Good habits for kids
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