For parents of young learners
How to teach your child good manners
Good manners help children make friends, impress teachers and feel confident with adults. Most manners are about how we speak and listen to others. Children learn them best by watching and practising, not by being lectured. Here are 15 manners to teach and 8 tips that work.
By the Eloqova team · Updated 10 November 2026
Free printable kit for your child's class: speaking worksheets and a speech planner.Get it freeChildren copy what they see: Say please, thank you and sorry to your child, and they will start saying it too.
15 good manners every child should know
- Say please when asking for something.
- Say thank you when someone helps or gives you something.
- Say sorry when you make a mistake.
- Greet people with a smile and a hello.
- Say excuse me before interrupting.
- Wait for your turn to speak.
- Knock before entering a room.
- Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze.
- Chew with your mouth closed and don't talk with food in it.
- Ask before borrowing something.
- Return things in good condition.
- Answer the phone politely and say who is speaking.
- Listen when others are talking.
- Be kind online and never post mean comments.
- Thank the host when leaving a party or someone's home.
8 tips to teach manners
- Model the manners yourself every day.
- Teach one or two manners at a time.
- Role play situations like meeting guests or eating out.
- Use gentle reminders: "What's the magic word?"
- Praise your child when they remember on their own.
- Explain why manners matter: they make people feel respected.
- Correct privately, not in front of others.
- Read stories about kindness and talk about them.
How to practise at home
- Pick one manner a week and make it the family focus.
- Role play a dinner with guests at home.
- Make a manners chart and tick each time your child remembers.
- Notice and praise good manners you see in others too.
Questions parents ask
What are the most important manners for kids?
Saying please, thank you, sorry and excuse me, greeting people, waiting your turn to speak, and listening when others talk.
At what age should children learn manners?
Simple words like please and thank you can start as soon as children talk. More manners can be added as they grow.
How do I teach manners without nagging?
Model them yourself, use gentle reminders, role play situations and praise your child when they remember on their own.
More free guides
- Magic words for kids
- Good habits for kids
- Teach your child to talk to adults
- My child interrupts when others speak
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